• What's fueling all of this anxiety over testosterone levels in men?
• What percentage of men actually have low testosterone?
• Are there any risks of having too much testosterone in the body?
• How can men maintain healthy testosterone levels as they age?
• Is there any truth to the claim that abstaining from masturbation boosts testosterone?

• What does it mean to engage in mindful dating?
• Why is it important to clarify your "dating vision" when looking to find a partner?
• How do you build an empowering self-concept, and why is this important to do when dating?
• When using dating apps, what does "mindful swiping" look like?
• How can you learn to communicate in order to connect?

• Why does compersion seem to come easier to some people?
• Does our ability to experience compersion change with age?
• Can you learn how to feel compersion if you've never felt it before?
• What are some different approaches to learning compersion?

• What do we actually know about the G-spot?
• Do we know what the average penis size really is?
• Does peeing after sex actually prevent UTIs?
• Does pubic hair grooming affect STI risk?
• Can men have multiple orgasms too?

• What physical or other attributes of monsters do people find arousing?
• To what extent do monster fantasies overlap with interest in kink and BDSM?
• What is the role of fear in sexual arousal?
• Why do monster fantasies seem to be particularly appealing to women and LGBTQ+ folks?
• How important is it for us to understand where our sexual fantasies come from?

• What does it mean to be a "monster f*cker?"
• How long have people been attracted to monsters?
• Which specific monsters are people into?
• Why are monsters often depicted in the media in erotic ways?

• What is a penis pump anyway, and how does it work?
• What are the benefits of using these devices?
• Compared to other erectile enhancers (e.g., medications, cock rings), what are the advantages of a pump?
• What are best practices for using a penis pump?
• What should someone consider when purchasing a pump?

• What is a pelvic health physical therapist?
• What's so important about male pelvic health?
• What are the potential benefits (and risks) of Kegel exercises for men?
• How do you know whether Kegel exercises are right for you?
• How do men need to think differently about their pelvic health?

• What are the six keys to good sex?
• What does it mean to approach sex as a performance, and how can we avoid this?
• Why is it actually a good thing to be a little bit selfish when it comes to sex?
• How can we learn to better assert our sexual desires and communicate boundaries?

• What are some examples of really bad relationship advice?
• When is relationship self-help actually helpful, and when is if harmful?
• Are our expectations for relationships today unrealistic?
• Are there any universal "rules" for healthy relationships?

• How can paying attention to diet and nutrition help pave the way for more pleasurable anal sex?
• What do people need to know about anal douching in order to optimize health and pleasure?
• Why is dilating an important part of preparation before anal sex?
• What are the best kinds of lube for anal sex?
• What are some good beginner tips and techniques for penetration?

• Why is psychology an important aspect of pleasurable anal sex?
• Who is having anal sex?
• How risky is anal sex?
• Is receptive anal sex necessarily a "submissive" activity?
• What are the biggest things people get wrong about anal sex?

• How have views on masturbation changed over time?
• What do people fantasize about when they masturbate?
• Does abstaining from masturbation boost testosterone?
• Can avoiding sex and masturbation actually increase athletic performance?
• How can we have a healthier relationship with self-pleasure?
• Can masturbation help us to fall asleep faster?

• How have the dynamics of heterosexual relationships changed over time?
• Why does the field of sex therapy have such a complicated relationship with men and male sexuality?
• What are some of the key differences in sexual psychology that are important for people to understand?

• What's the problem with the "friction plus fantasy" narrative?
• How can understanding the sexual self as "infantile" help us find inspiration in long-term sexual relationships?
• What is "simmering," and what's the benefit of learning how to do it?
• Why might it be bad to view sex as work?
• How can you develop sexual connections that last over time?

• How can we maintain a sense of sexual curiosity over time?
• What is sexual currency? Why is this concept important for understanding how to maintain a lasting sexual connection?
• How can taking a pause from sex provide an opportunity to reboot and reset your sex life?
• How do you build up sexual self-confidence following a breakup?
• How can we prioritize and maintain lifelong sexual well-being?

• What are the most common questions that come up in sex therapy?
• How do I know if I'm having "enough" sex?
• What's the best time of the day to have sex?
• Do aphrodisiacs really work?

• Why is it the case that having more sexual partners doesn't necessarily translate to having more STIs?
• Broadly speaking, how do some of our sexual practices shape STIs?
• What's the relationship between pubic hair grooming and STIs?
• What are some tips for individuals who want to talk about STIs with a sexual and/or romantic partner?
• How can we break down STI taboo and stigma to facilitate more open conversations on the subject?

• What kinds of safeguards do practitioners need to be thinking about in order to minimize the risk of harm when someone is undergoing psychedelic-assisted therapy?
• What do people need to know about the potential side effects and health risks of psychedelic substances?
• What is the current legal landscape for psychedelic-assisted sex therapy?
• How do laws need to change in order to accommodate the practice of psychedelic therapy?
• What should you look for in a provider, and what are some red flags to watch out for?

• What is a psychedelic anyway?
• How can psychedelics help create a feeling of presence during sex?
• What kinds of sexual problems have the greatest potential to be helped through the use of psychedelics?
• Does cannabis have the same therapeutic potential as psychedelics?
• What kinds of questions should someone think about before considering psychedelic-assisted sex therapy?

• What does the term "ethical porn" mean?
• What does an "ethical gangbang" look like?
• How are consent and boundaries maintained when shooting complex group scenes?
• How does a scene look or feel different when it's empowering as opposed to when it's objectifying?
• What should consumers look for if they want to support ethical porn?
• How are growing legal restrictions on porn shaping the industry?

• What do both Hollywood and porn get wrong when to comes to depicting sex on screen?
• How is Erika's approach to making adult films different from what people might be used to seeing in porn?
• What kind of reaction has ethical and feminist porn received from the broader male-dominated porn industry?
• What has changed in the world of porn in the last two decades?

• How can work-related stress interfere with sexual desire, arousal, and function?
• If you have a particularly high-stress job, what can you do to get your sex life back on track?
• What does work-life balance really look like, and is it realistic to attain?
• How can engaging in sex more often help us to deal with stress?
• What are some ways we can prioritize sex in our lives?

• What does the term "sexual trauma" mean in a clinical context?
• What are some of the most common impacts of sexual trauma?
• How can individuals who have experienced trauma learn to reconnect with their bodies?
• What kinds of treatments do sex therapists use in cases of sexual trauma?
• How do you bring up the topic of trauma with a romantic partner?
• How can you be a supportive partner to someone with a history of trauma?

• Whether you're currently single or in a relationship, what do you need to know before you start exploring non-monogamy?
• How do you set boundaries in multi-partner relationships?
• What can you do if jealousy pops up?
• If you're practicing polyamory, how do you know when you've reached your saturation point?
• What is "new relationship energy," and how do you prevent it from becoming an issue?
• What are some common red flags in poly and open relationships?

• In what ways is this show different from anything else that has come before?
• What is the role of a sex and relationship expert on a show like this?
• What were some of the biggest issues that came up as couples explored what it might look like to be a throuple?
• Does this show offer an accurate depiction of polyamory?
• How can a show like Couple to Throuple contribute to broader conversations about relationship diversity and polyamory?

• What does PGAD look like in everyday life?
• What kind of effects does this have on people?
• How long have we known about PGAD, and how common is it?
• What causes uncontrollable genital arousal?
• Are there any treatments that work?

• How many people experience sexual side effects from antidepressants?
• What are the most common symptoms of PSSD?
• Is PSSD a formal medical diagnosis?
• Why is PSSD controversial?
• Are there any gender differences in PSSD?
• Why might SSRIs can cause long-term sexual dysfunction?

• How much has the marriage rate changed over time?
• Why are adults staying single for longer periods of time?
• If most singles want relationships, why does everyone seem to think that they don’t want them?
• Why are young folks increasingly concerned with telling a partner that they want to be exclusive?
• How many people in relationships are practicing monogamy vs consensual non-monogamy?

• What percentage of adults engage in masturbation? How many have never done it?
• How many people had sex in the last year? How often do people usually have sex?
• Who has more sex: people who are single or married?
• Why are there more adult virgins today than there used to be?

• How (and why) have social media influences brought the idea of semen retention to the masses?
• Are there actually any health benefits to abstaining from ejaculation?
• Is an orgasm obtained from self-pleasure really any different from an orgasm obtained through partnered sex?
• Can women really become "addicted" to their vibrators?
• Is there an objective standard for what constitutes "too much" masturbation?

• Where did the idea of masturbation as a sinful activity originate?
• What are some of the ways religious leaders have tried to discourage self-pleasure over the years?
• When did masturbation start to become a public health concern, and why?
• Why does self-pleasure continue to be a controversial topic to this day?
• How has the rise of social media coincided with a rise in negative views on masturbation?

• What does it really mean to have "casual" sex anyway?
• What are the potential positive and negatives of casual sex?
• How do you know if casual sex is right for you?
• How do you establish boundaries with a partner you don't know very well?
• What might a good model for communicating and maintaining sexual health look like if you're in a casual relationship?
• How do you prevent drama in casual relationships?

• Why is lube a great starting place for exploring toys?
• What should people be looking for when it comes to buying a lube that's going to work for them?
• What are the different materials that are used to make sex toys, and what should you be looking for?
• If you're new to buying vibrators, masturbation sleeves, or anal toys, what do you need to know for picking a good one?
• Are luxury sex toys worth it?

• What would be a sign that someone needs to see a urologist for a sexual difficulty as opposed to another doctor or specialist?
• How can men delay orgasm and increase sexual stamina?
• What are some ways to improve erectile function to reduce the risk of erectile difficulties developing?
• What are some of the most common reasons for painful sex, and what are some potential ways of addressing them?
• What can you do if you seem to have a hard time reaching orgasm?

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• Do any of the pills that promise to make your penis bigger actually work?
• Is there any benefit to penile stretching?
• How can penis rings and pumps help men who are worried about their size?
• Can dermal filler help to increase penis size? How does it work?
• If you're concerned about your penis size, what do you really need to know?

• What is pleasure? What are the benefits of seeking pleasure beyond just feeling good?
• How can we start to shift our mindset around pleasure and start to prioritize it without feeling guilty?
• What are ways to be more present during moments of pleasure so that we can really enjoy them?
• How can we have more pleasurable sex?

• How unbalanced is the study of sexuality when it comes to minority populations?
• Why is talking about race as a "risk factor" a problematic way of approaching sex research?
• How do Black women (and men) conceptualize pleasure?
• How common is sexual pain in Black women, and how do social and racialized expectations and scripts affect how pain is experienced for them?
• How does sexual fantasy and desire vary across racial and ethnic groups?
• How can we promote better, more equitable sex education and research?

• How do you know whether you're really in love with someone? What's the difference between lust and love?
• Is there value in the love languages concept?
• How can individuals make sure their partners know they love them?
• When is the right time to announce a new relationship?
• How do we dial down the pressure and make Valentine's Day feel like fun instead of work?

• Is more sex necessarily better sex?
• How do people really feel about spontaneous sex and planned sex? Is sex that happens spontaneously actually better?
• What's the link between closeness/intimacy and sexual desire?
• There's this idea that women are the barometers of relationship satisfaction in heterosexual relationships ("happy wife, happy life"). Is there any truth to this?
• What are the costs and benefits of making sexual compromises in a relationship?

• What's the difference between being solo and being single?
• What are some of the different ways of being solo?
• Are there certain types of individuals who may be more well-suited to pursuing the solo life?
• How do solos engage in the process of relationship design? What does that look like?
• What are some of the keys to being solo and flourishing?

• How have rates of marriage and single living changed in the US (and across the world) in the last 50 years?
• Which countries today have the most singles?
• What factors are propelling more people into singlehood?
• Why have traditional relationship models fallen out of favor?
• How much stigma is still attached to being single?

• What is the difference between a sexual fantasy and a sexual desire?
• Do fantasies need to be elaborate or "fantastical" in order to count as fantasies?
• How can we get rid of the shame we may have surrounding our fantasies?
• What are some ways we can make sure our sexual needs and desires are prioritized?
• How can a newbie who is interested in threesomes or kink start exploring these fantasies?

• What is the "27 things" exercise, and how can it help you to get clarity on what you want from your intimate life?
• How can we better manage body image issues that are hindering desire for and enjoyment of sex?
• How can we avoid hopping on the "relationship escalator" with a partner who might not be meeting our needs?
• What are some ways to make planned sex good sex?
• How can we bring the fun back into sex?

• Why is telling your partner to "calm down" a bad idea in a negative cycle?
• Although being vulnerable during a fight might sound scary, how can this be helpful in resolving it?
• What is co-regulation, and how can understanding this concept help to combat negative cycles?
• How can you avoid the traps that lead us into negative cycles in the first place?
• How do you repair a relationship after a negative cycle?

• What is it that triggers negative cycles in relationships?
• What do negative cycles look like or feel like as they're happening?
• Which attachment style pairings are most likely to lead to negative cycles?
• How can you tell the difference between negative cycles and abuse?

• If you're ready for a change but your partner isn't, how do you navigate that?
• How can partners work together to create and maintain a sexual connection that lasts?
• What are some new ways of exploring erotic pleasures with a partner?
• What is the "magic trick" for accessing ecstasy, and how can we apply it to our sex lives?

• What do people actually want from sex, and why is that important to think about?
• Why is sexual novelty alone not quite enough to cultivate a strong connection?
• How is pleasure different from desire?
• How can creating an "emotional floorplan" make it easier for people to get into a lustful headspace?

• What are some practical things you can do to develop a greater sense of sexual empowerment?
• How can resolutions to boost physical and mental health enhance sexual performance and satisfaction?
• How can you introduce more novelty into your sex life?
• What resolutions can help someone be more present during sex?
• What is a sex plan, and how can making one benefit you and your relationship(s)?

• What are the five love languages?
• What's the problem with claiming that there are only five languages to communicate love?
• Is there any evidence supporting the idea that people who speak their partner's love language are happier in relationships?
• Are there more scientifically sound ways of understanding love than the love languages?
• Is it okay to still like the love languages idea even if the data don't support it?

• Why is the idea of male sexuality as "simple" a myth?
• How do beauty standards affect men, and what are the implications of this for sex, dating, and relationships?
• What do men who are anxious about their penis size need to know?
• Are men always supposed to be turned on and ready for sex?
• To what degree is sex emotional vs. physical for men?

• Is an erection always a sign of sexual arousal and interest?
• Are orgasm and ejaculation one and the same, or are they different things?
• Can men experience multiple orgasms?
• What do men need to know about sex toys and prostate stimulation?
• What does it really mean to have premature ejaculation and erectile dysfunction?

• How can you get more comfortable being vocal in bed?
• How can you suggest trying something new with your partner?
• Why is it important to expand your definition of sex?
• How can you incorporate more touch into daily life?
• What should you think about resolving to do (or not do) in your sex life in the new year?

• What kind of things do sex workers need to consider when deciding where and how to sell their services online?
• How does digital sex work allow for more creativity and flexibility in the kinds of services offered?
• How do online sex workers craft authentic personas and interactions with clients?
• How has the internet helped sex workers form a sense of community and social support?
• How is the stigma around sex work changing in the Information Age?

• What all is included under the term "sex work?"
• Two major paradigms dominate research on sex work: the oppression paradigm and the empowerment paradigm. What's the difference between these views?
• What are some of the common motivations for entering sex work?
• How do digital sex workers mitigate some of the unique risks that come along with working in online spaces?
• How is the experience of sex work different for people of different racial backgrounds?

• When is the "right" time to start discussing sex with your kids?
• What are some of the key topics parents should be covering?
• What can parents teach their kids about having healthy relationships?
• When and how should parents talk to their kids about porn?
• How is having "the talk" different if your kid is on the spectrum?

• How is the sexual landscape different for today's teens?
• What are some practical things a parent can do so that their kids feel comfortable coming to them with sex questions?
• How can parents approach questions about sex without shame and judgement?
• What should you do if your kid asks something that feels too personal?
• What are some practical ways that parents can explain consent to their kids?

• What are some practical ways individuals can keep their online data more secure?
• How safe (or unsafe) is it to use apps that track our health data, sexually and otherwise?
• For individuals traveling out of state to access legally available care that might not be available in their home state, are there any steps they can take to mitigate data surveillance?
• What steps can providers take to protect patients and clients when it comes to data that might be subject to government surveillance?
• What responsibility do tech companies have to offer more protection over consumer data?